“I’m Still Thinking”

Amar Pandit , CFA , CFP

Amar Pandit

A respected entrepreneur with 25+ years of Experience, Amar Pandit is the Founder of several companies that are making a Happy difference in the lives of people. He is currently the Founder of Happyness Factory, a world-class online investment & goal-based financial planning platform through which he aims to help every Indian family save and invest wisely. He is very passionate about spreading financial literacy and is the author of 4 bestselling books (+ 2 more to release in 2020), 8 Sketch Books, Board Game and 700 + columns.

I recently met Deepa, a thoughtful and well-regarded Mutual Fund Distributor. She has served her clients for over two decades. Built her practice with care. Grown through referrals.

And yet, when we sat down last week, there was heaviness in her voice.

“I’ve lost Rs. 50 Crore from a few clients over the last few months,” she said quietly.

She didn’t say it with panic.

She didn’t even say it with anger.

She said it with resignation.

As if this was just something to accept. To absorb. To carry.

But that wasn’t the real concern.

The real concern was that she wasn’t doing anything about it.

No strategic response. No structural shift. No clarity on next steps.

Just silence.

Later that week, Kartik, one of our partners, walked in.

“Three of Reena’s clients have approached me in the last couple of weeks,” he said.

Reena is a respected 65-year-old MFD from Mumbai. She has built Rs. 600 Crore in AUM. Her name is known. Her reputation is solid. 

But her clients are slowly leaving.

Not all at once.

But steadily.

And when I asked her about it, she said something I’ve now heard far too many times:

“I’m still thinking.”

I want to pause on that line.

Because it’s not just Reena.

It’s not just Deepa.

There is a growing group of MFDs who are watching change happen, watching clients walk away, watching the industry evolveand they are still thinking.

Still thinking about whether to modernize their operations.

Still thinking about succession planning.

Still thinking about upgrading client experience.

Still thinking about what to do next.

But time isn’t thinking.

Time is moving.

Clients are moving.

Teams are getting demotivated.

Successors are not interested.

And competitors are acting.

What’s happening here?

It’s not that these MFDs don’t care.

It’s not that they don’t see the shifts.

It’s not even that they’re incapable.

It’s something else.

It’s fear.

Fear of letting go.

Fear of uncertainty.

Fear of the unknown.

“What if I lose control?”

“What if the client doesn’t like the new experience?”

“What if I don’t get the credit?”

“What if I still have time?”

But here’s what’s really happening underneath it all:

The clients are aging. Their children are getting involved. And the next generation is asking harder questions.

“What’s your plan?”

“What happens if something happens to you?”

“Is this the best platform for us now?”

And in the absence of clear answers, they’re quietly walking out.

Not with anger.

Not with drama.

But with decisive intent.

And here’s the bitter truth:

They don’t have loyalty to legacy.

They have loyalty to value.

They don’t remember the SIP started in 2007.

They remember how they felt during the last market dip.

They don’t care how long the relationship has been.

They care about who’s going to help them make better decisions going forward.

This is the great shift.

It’s not a market risk.

It’s not a regulatory risk.

It’s a relevance risk.

And many MFDs are unprepared for it.

They think AUM is a moat.

It’s not.

They think client age means stability.

It doesn’t.

They think if nothing has happened for the last 20 years, nothing will happen now.

It will.

And when it does, it happens fast.

That’s what Deepa and Reena are experiencing.

Clients leaving in silence.

Assets moving without a fight.

And it’s not because the MFDs are doing something wrong.

It’s because they’re not doing enough that’s right.

And here’s what hurts the most.

They’ve built something beautiful.

They’ve helped thousands of people build wealth.

They’ve changed lives.

But now they’re standing at a crossroad.

And they’re hesitating.

So let me say this directly to every Deepa and Reena out there:

This is not the time to hesitate.

This is the time to act.

You owe it to your clients.

You owe it to your team.

You owe it to your legacy.

Succession is not something you do when you’re ready.

It’s something you do when your clients need continuity.

Client experience is not just a process.

It’s your moat.

It’s what keeps clients when markets fall and when competitors come knocking.

Technology is not a luxury.

It’s how you stay relevant in an attention-deficit world.

And collaboration is not a compromise.

It’s a multiplier.

Look around.

The industry is evolving.

Clients are evolving.

Expectations are rising.

You don’t need to become someone else.

You just need to become a better version of yourself—with support, with structure, and with scale.

You’ve already done the hard part.

You’ve built trust.

Now build resilience.

Build continuity.

Build a practice that lasts beyond you.

Let your clients feel cared for even when you’re not in the room.

Let your team feel secure even when you’re on vacation.

Let your business feel future-ready even when the market isn’t.

This is what leadership looks like now.

It’s not about having all the answers.

It’s about asking the right questions.

It’s about doing something—not everything.

It’s about choosing growth over comfort.

And if you’re still thinking…

That’s okay.

But don’t stay there too long.

Because your clients are thinking too.

And if you don’t move forward, they will.

Not out of disrespect.

But out of necessity.

Because wealth is personal.

And when people don’t feel understood, they look elsewhere.

You can prevent that.

You can evolve.

You can grow with your clients.

You can build something bigger than yourself.

And you don’t have to do it alone.

That’s the beauty of the time we live in.

There are partners, platforms, and people who want to help you build a world-class wealth firm.

One that enriches your brand.

Protects your relationships.

And enhances your value.

You just need to decide.

Not tomorrow.

Not someday.

Now.

Because you’ve worked too hard to let this go quietly.

And the next chapter of your story deserves to be written with courage.

Not caution.

With clarity.

Not delay.

So, let’s stop just thinking.

And start acting.

For your clients.

For your legacy.

And for the future you still have the power to shape.